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聯(lián)合國(guó)人權(quán)理事會(huì)第58屆會(huì)議于2025年2月24日至4月4日在日內(nèi)瓦萬國(guó)宮盛大舉行。
北京市光明慈善基金會(huì),作為聯(lián)合國(guó)經(jīng)社理事會(huì)特別咨商地位的非政府組織,積極參會(huì)并提交了書面和視頻發(fā)言。發(fā)言涵蓋了多個(gè)重要主題,包括“女性賦權(quán):促進(jìn)全球人權(quán)事業(yè)的繁榮發(fā)展”、“傾聽孤獨(dú)癥家庭的聲音:提升全球?qū)陋?dú)癥的關(guān)注與認(rèn)知”以及“父母無條件的愛:通過星星工程療愈孤獨(dú)癥兒童”、“志愿服務(wù)活動(dòng)推動(dòng)文化權(quán)發(fā)展”。為了與讀者共享這些精彩內(nèi)容,我們將分期逐篇登載,敬請(qǐng)期待。
父母的無條件愛:通過星星工程療愈孤獨(dú)癥兒童
米胡比·阿尤布
阿爾及利亞IBRRA孤獨(dú)癥機(jī)構(gòu)負(fù)責(zé)人
發(fā)言內(nèi)容
我代表北京光明慈善基金會(huì)“星星工程”項(xiàng)目,很高興與大家分享一個(gè)針對(duì)孤獨(dú)癥兒童家長(zhǎng)的革命性方法。想象一下,如果你用28天的時(shí)間充滿愛意和溫柔地對(duì)待你的孩子,會(huì)發(fā)生怎樣的深刻轉(zhuǎn)變。作為家長(zhǎng),你所需要做的就是持續(xù)地關(guān)注他們,發(fā)自內(nèi)心地贊美他們,親吻他們,擁抱他們,鼓勵(lì)他們玩耍并克服恐懼。
在此期間,重要的是避免責(zé)罵或拒絕他們的要求。以寬容的態(tài)度接受他們的錯(cuò)誤并保持耐心,即使面對(duì)不可接受的行為。努力建立清晰、高精度的溝通,并與你的孩子建立牢不可破的信任。許多自閉癥兒童在內(nèi)心安全感方面存在困難,可能不完全信任他們的父母。
我們通過“星星工程”項(xiàng)目的目標(biāo)不是依賴單一的治療師,而是通過這種方法賦予你,即父母,修復(fù)和加強(qiáng)你與孩子之間關(guān)系的權(quán)力。你將在未來幾天見證的結(jié)果可以說是神奇的。通過投入時(shí)間和愛,你可以促進(jìn)愈合,恢復(fù)安全感,并與你的孩子建立更深層次、更有意義的聯(lián)系。
Parents' Unconditional Love: Healing Autistic Children through the Star Project
Mihoubi Ayyoub
IBRRA Autism Research Institute
Speech
On behalf of the Star Project of Beijing Guangming Charity Foundation, I am excited to share a revolutionary approach for parents of autistic children. Imagine the profound transformation that could occur if you dedicated 28 days to flooding your child with affection and tenderness. All it requires from you as parents is to provide them with consistent attention, heartfelt praise, kisses, hugs, and encouragement to play and conquer their fears.
During this period, it's crucial to refrain from scolding or rejecting their requests. Embrace their mistakes with forgiveness and maintain patience, even when faced with unacceptable behavior. Strive to establish clear, high-precision communication and build an unbreakable trust with your child. Many autistic children struggle with inner security and may not fully trust their parents.
Our goal through the Star Project is not to rely on a single therapist but to empower you, the parents, with this method to repair and strengthen your relationship with your child. The results you will witness in the coming days can be nothing short of magical. By dedicating this time and love, you can facilitate healing, restore security, and forge a deeper, more meaningful bond with your child.